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Friday, January 16, 2009
Sex and Sizes
In Andy house in NY, I trying to look cool, but it's look like fool :o)
This is a interesting article to write about. Sex and Size, in America. In Cambodia it’s not open for ladies or a girl to talk about sex for any reason, that’s very sad for me, because I think everyone should openly talk about it, if you talk about it sometime its could help you to maintains your relationship. A lot of people feel it, but not do it, and also not allow talking about it. I feel very hard to born as a Cambodian lady… but its different culture so people just have to follow it.
In America people have many sizes, different from Cambodia, most of Cambodian is small. In America have a very big people, a big people, a very tall people, a very short, a very black, a very white, a very rich and a very poor, a normal people, and many different nationalities.
A lot of people open about relationship and sex in this country, having sex here it’s mainly for fun. Everyone can have sex anytime, with anyone, at anywhere they wants, even they not ready to be with each other… Not many people think it big deal, as long as two people agreed. In Cambodia if you have sex with a girl, you have to marry that girl. Of course there are many girls been having sex with their boy friends, and not get marry, but they will keep it very secret, and if other people knew about that, they feel very embarrasses, very sad, because they feel men playing with them, and people look down at them. The Khmer man wants to marry a virgin girl, if they know the girl not virgin they don’t wants to commit to the girl. The Khmer men thinks, she is a bad girl if she not virgin, of course not all of them think like that, but most of them thinks that way.Lady that not following the traditional is very bad. The man expected Khmer lady have to be virgin before marry, Can Khmer man keep their virgin before they marry too? How they know the girl that they marry is virgin? Do they believe her if she says she is virgin? A lot of them using a very old fashion way to recognize a virgin girl, sometime it’s work, sometime it’s not, it’s depend on lady. I believe there are still a lot of virgin men and virgin ladies in Cambodia, but I don’t think there are many in AmericaJ. Is it important to be virgin? For me, I don’t want to meet a virgin man, because I think virgin man, have not enough experience to please ladies.:o)
Here very normal that a lady or a man, drinks a lot of alcohol, then get drunks, had a big hang over the next day, and wakeup see themselvesin other people room, or at somewhere they not even know. Sometime they don’t know what happen last night, sometime they do know what happen, but they pretend not to know, or not to remember it. Sometime they wakeup see a stranger on their bed…:o) I wonder how they feel?
While I was in New York, many men come to talk to me…. They make me feel they wants to share me :o) I am not looking for anyone, I just want to relax with my time. I have other two friends who like to go out with men, but she hard to find man because she think she big, that’s why wherever we go the man come to me and not to them. We talk a lot about what the man like and dislike, and turn out the result is that many men like a skinny lady… but many lady not really care about how big is man, because the lady care about emotion, if the lady feel good about a guy, she doesn’t care much about how he look like. The lady can always enjoy sex with a good emotion. Man often can enjoy sex without caring about emotion, they only care sometime when they in relationship. I’m sure all the man is different, but I think most men really care about lady size.
Q: If the big lady hard to find man, why don’t they keep themselves small? Is any man ever thinks about big lady feeling? Are they ever honestly like her the way she is? Why men expect relationship with the size of lady? If the first time you met a lady, she is thin, then after two years she get a lot bigger, do you (man) still love the her?
Many thanks, for any of you to answer those questions.
I hope everyone find their love, that not expecting any condition on how they look. Pleas love yourself before you love someone else.
From Mr Bert: Kaknika, I read your blog and your questions about why American men like small or thin ladys....and I wanted to respond with some thoughts I had about all that and maybe someone else has already mentioned this fact......That in the western world it is known in history that a few hundred years back it was the larger, robust, buxom, more corpulant and actually the fatter women that were admired and lusted after. ( take a look at nude paintings from that era and you will see how sexuality was expressed in the obese women.) Also happy little angeles and children were always depicted as chubby little cheribums.. It was a sign of well being as well as being well fed and demonstrated a certain amount of wealth and prosperity. This probably appealed to men as well.
Now it's my Idea that as our modern age came along and women were allowed to be more athletic, playing tennis, riding horses, swimming, jogging and just being able to show more skin, that the culture and preference slowly evolved to what we now have. Of course, we don't want to leave out the great influence that the advertising media had as they discovered how well the beautiful, stylish, athletic, and sexy women sold their products.
Women are being liberated more in the western world than other parts where the tradition, and cultures are keeping them busy in the home....having babys and being subservient to their men folks....In America the women have won almost equal statis with men, as they enter the business world, politics, medicine, law, and well any profession they like as they assert themselves on our changing society.
In many ways this is good and positive, but it also is obvious that the marriage mores have broken down as America now has a 55% divorce rate, and this has made for many disfunctional families. I believe that a culture needs good, strong family values if it is to survive .
In Andy house in NY, I trying to look cool, but it's look like fool :o)
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From Mr Bert: Kaknika, I read your blog and your questions about why American men like small or thin ladys....and I wanted to respond with some thoughts I had about all that and maybe someone else has already mentioned this fact......That in the western world it is known in history that a few hundred years back it was the larger, robust, buxom, more corpulant and actually the fatter women that were admired and lusted after. ( take a look at nude paintings from that era and you will see how sexuality was expressed in the obese women.) Also happy little angeles and children were always depicted as chubby little cheribums.. It was a sign of well being as well as being well fed and demonstrated a certain amount of wealth and prosperity. This probably appealed to men as well.
Now it's my Idea that as our modern age came along and women were allowed to be more athletic, playing tennis, riding horses, swimming, jogging and just being able to show more skin, that the culture and preference slowly evolved to what we now have. Of course, we don't want to leave out the great influence that the advertising media had as they discovered how well the beautiful, stylish, athletic, and sexy women sold their products.
Women are being liberated more in the western world than other parts where the tradition, and cultures are keeping them busy in the home....having babys and being subservient to their men folks....In America the women have won almost equal statis with men, as they enter the business world, politics, medicine, law, and well any profession they like as they assert themselves on our changing society.
In many ways this is good and positive, but it also is obvious that the marriage mores have broken down as America now has a 55% divorce rate, and this has made for many disfunctional families. I believe that a culture needs good, strong family values if it is to survive .
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