Baby and Marrriage Life (Update 1)

Quinn, Elliott young brothers

Many people having problem in their relationship, because they not very sure about what they want from their partner, plus it's hard to make decision to commit to what each other wants. Sometime the lady wants the baby and the man not ready, sometime the man wants the baby but the lady not ready, and yet both partners like to have a baby but they think it’s not the right time yet. They worry about many different things, for example financial, the right time to have the baby, times to spend with the baby because they both working and busies, have to find the best way to raise the baby, health care, education…etc… the more you think is the more problems you have. I agree that to have a baby is a lot of responsibilities, and needed commitment if you want to raise a child. But one thing I want to share with everyone is: there are no right time to have baby, because life born to deal with activities. There are always something to do, there always something happen to keep you busy. There are something you want to do, to make all this dollars to pay your bills. So you never find the right time to deal with baby.

Elliott, the boy that I take care in DC.

There are never enough money to have a baby because: street people have not enough money to buy food, poor people have not enough money to buy a house, middle class people have not enough money to buy a expensive car, and rich people have not enough money to buy a airplane, people never have enough… the more you have is the more you want. The best time to be ready to have baby is, both of you agree to have baby together for any reason. To make decide to have a baby, it is the best reason to have a baby. The perfect marriage life is beginning with two people, but end with more than two. Perhaps, I’m wrong but that what I though after been through many life experiences… I enjoy working with children, even they are not mine, but I still think having children are the best thing that ever happens in people life. So if you want to have a baby, all you need to do is, ready to be a good parent... and good parent can always make good thing happen for their children. What do you think? any better idea?